Enter to Win: Transformed by Tough Times

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I would like to introduce you to the book Transformed by Tough Times. It is easy to read, but will make you think. I have a copy to give away. Leave a comment and your name will be entered in the draw. The winner of the draw will be announced on May 1st.

 A book about tough times usually implies that the author has had some personal experiences that connect to that topic. Where did the book start for you? 

In college, I was a kicker and punter at Oklahoma State University under a demanding head coach, Jimmy Johnson. (Football fans might recognize him as the coach for two college national championships in the 80’s and a couple of Super Bowls in the 90’s for the Dallas Cowboys). Just playing for Coach Johnson was tough enough, but my sophomore year, I got my knee bent backwards in a Junior Varsity game in Lincoln, Nebraska. When surgery and rehab efforts didn’t get me back to playing football, I eventually had to hang up the cleats. Looking back now, that experience made me more aware of how other people dealt with adversity and caused me to pay more attention to how I could respond when faced with tough times.

Your book transitions pretty quickly from your football days to life as a church planter and how that actually prompted you to write this book. How did that all happen? 

When football didn’t work out, I found myself drawn to ministry in a great church near the OSU campus. Charlie Baker, the pastor of that church, invited me and other college students to partner with him in creating a weekly worship service for students. In doing that ministry I fell in love with the church and decided to go to seminary and be a pastor myself. After getting married and going through seminary training, we eventually moved to Kansas City to start churches. For nearly 20 years we were involved in the roller coaster rides of starting five different churches in our region. Most days, I absolutely loved it. But in one of those church starts we had a train wreck that knocked me for a loop and out of a church that I loved perhaps more than I loved my wife and family.

So after that you went on an even deeper quest for figuring out what was happening to you?  

Right. With a new intensity I began to systematically search the scriptures to find some help for my pain. And I collected information and stories from others wiser than me and from many who had suffered greatly and come through with amazing faith and character.

You write about a day in Costa Rica that changed your life. What happened?  

After the break up from the church, I wound up going to Costa Rica on a mission trip with my parents. My parents, by the way, were missionaries when I was a kid and 30 years prior we had actually lived in Costa Rica. For me, going back was a fun, blast to the past. But more than that, the people there were cathartic for me. I was an emotional mess much of the time. And one day I must have cried with three or four people who needed to know Christ, but who were in pain. God used my pain and my weeping with others to both minister to them and to me. That day I discovered something about God’s ministry of tears and how sometimes He does more through our weaknesses and frailties than He does with our strengths.

So this is where your international ministry began? 

Yes. While in Costa Rica, a Guatemalan man by the name of Cesar Gonzalez invited me to come to his country and dream about ministries and churches for people in Guatemala who don’t like church. To hear the whole story you’d have to pack a lunch! But let me briefly say that Cesar would have been a mafia hit man if God hadn’t gotten a hold of him! With a little encouragement from some pastor friends in Kansas City, I took him up on his invitation, and for two weeks Cesar and I drove around the country looking at dozens of different situations and groups of people. Little did I know then, that 13 years later we would be working in over 55 locations covering Guatemala, Honduras, and El Salvador. I mention this because I have learned a lot from believers from other cultures and have put much of that into the book. Many of us in North America aren’t aware that both Guatemala and El Salvador have been through recent civil wars. Many people there have shared first hand stories of unimaginable grief and heartache. As I have walked alongside them, my faith has been challenged and I have an increasing desire to not just mindlessly go through my tough times, but to actually think deeply and grow through my tough circumstances. As I’ve done a little bit of that, I think it’s time that I pass some of this on to others who can benefit like I have.

Where can people find your book?

For now it’s only available from the trunk of my car! Or, more conveniently, it can be ordered from the website www.TransformedbyToughTimes.com. Soon it should become available on Amazon and we hope to have a Kindle version available in the near future as well. By the way, before Christmas we finished taping the audio book and I can’t wait to unveil that in the next couple of months too.

You also have a companion Bible study available as well right? 

Yes! Thank you for mentioning that. I think I am about as excited about the study guide as I am the book. On the website,www.TransformedbyToughTimes.com is a 24-session small groups Bible study guide that can be downloaded for free. It matches up to chapters in the book and then goes deeper with pertinent Bible stories and information related to the topic. Incidentally, when someone wants me to coach them through their own tough times, this is essentially the material I use. In early tests, we are getting positive feedback from groups going through the book and the Bible study together. Do check it out!

Find out about more opportunities for a free copy of TRANSFORMED BY TOUGH TIMES, go to https://www.facebook.com/events/338690666247617.
This blog host was given a complimentary copy of this book from the author in exchange for posting the author’s interview and/or book review on this blog. CSS Virtual Book Tours are managed by Christian Speakers Services (http://ChristianSpeakersServices.com).


Steve Reed is the Chief Encouragement Officer and Cross Cultural Catalyst for Daybreak International, a missions organization he founded that is dedicated to planting churches for the marginalized and forgotten peoples of the world. Currently, his two major projects focus on cowboys in Central America, and Kekchi Indians in the jungles of Guatemala. Those who know Steve best speak of his relentless encouragement and undying loyalty to people who face tough times. When not traveling in Central America, Steve comes home to Kansas City. He is married to Nola, and they have three young adult sons, a beloved daughter-in-law, and a grand baby on the way!

Gluten-Free Banana Blueberry Muffins

Company's Coming Gluten-free BakingThis morning I finally investigated a gift my friend, Barb, gave me several weeks ago. It was a large cloth grocery bag filled with gluten-free recipe books and ingredients. One of the books I received is pictured to the left. Ted Wolff, founder and former co-owner of Kinnikinnick Foods is the author. I made slight modifications to the Banana Blueberry Muffins recipe. My son gave the muffins an enthusiastic thumbs up as he gobbled down two. I found the texture of the muffins pleasing to the palate – no butter needed 🙂 If you have any uneaten muffins, you may freeze them.



1/3 cup honey                  1/2 cup brown rice flour

1/2 cup pea flour              1/2 cup sorghum flour

1/2 cup tapioca starch      2 tsp. baking powder

2 tsp. xanthan gum           1 tsp. cinnamon

1/2 tsp salt

1 cup blueberries              3/4 cup oil

4 tsp. egg replacer            5 Tbsp. water

2 large, ripe bananas        1 tsp. vanilla

Preheat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit. Mix first 11 ingredients in an extra-large bowl and set aside. In a separate bowl, mash the 2 bananas. Add the oil, egg replacer and vanilla. Mix well. Fold the banana mixture into the flour mixture until all dry mixture is wet. Add blueberries and gently mix. Drop batter into a greased muffin pan. Bake for 15-20 minutes (original recipe says 25-30 minutes, but I found they were done after 15 minutes) or until the muffins are browned and spring back when pressed lightly. Cool for a few minutes before removing them from the pan. Enjoy 🙂

Teen Issues: Dating, Courtship … OR?

Guard your heart
Guard your heart

casual couple smiling

Our eldest daughter is 15. Recently our discussions with her have centred around dating. We’ve had some good talks, but we haven’t come to an agreement on when we will allow her to start dating.

Here are some questions we’ve been discussing:

  • What is your definition of dating?
  • What is the goal of dating?
  • How old do you want to be when you get married?
  • How long do you think it is reasonable to date before you get married?
  • What kind of man do you want to marry? (What qualities are you looking for in a husband?)
  • Does the guy you want to date have the ability and desire to provide for you and any children you may have in the future?

Here are some resources we’re exploring:

My husband and I chose not to date multiple people before we were married. We also chose to set our standards high – we did not kiss each other until our wedding day. We have no regrets. However, we realize there are other godly people who made other choices. We also know that we can encourage and teach our kids, but ultimately they will have to make their own choices and face their own consequences in life. We pray for wisdom in this and other parenting issues!

If you have suggestions, we’d enjoy hearing them.