The road to change: Excuses or Honesty?

30 May 2014 Ruth L Snyder

I know I shouldn't eat this cake, butI stepped on the scale today for my weekly weigh-in and discovered the numbers are getting bigger instead of smaller. The increase is only a few pounds; I’m not discouraged, just motivated to get back on track and make better choices. In the last week, I’ve used a lot of excuses to make choices I shouldn’t have made: I’m tired, I’m stressed-out, I’ve been good and deserve a reward, It’s only a small Frosty. You get the idea. As a result, I’ve eaten too many calories, and often the wrong kind of calories. Now I’ve earned the natural consequences – gaining weight.

I’ve been working with one of my sons on making a change in his life. He’s a real master at excuses. There’s always a reason he couldn’t do what he should have, and it’s never his fault. I keep telling him that change won’t happen if he continues to use excuses. Hmmm. I guess it’s time for me to take my own advice 🙂

I’m still discovering what works for me, but here are the changes I’m enforcing this week:

  • Stay within my calorie limit for the day. If I go over, it shouldn’t be because of junk food
  • Focus on eating healthy foods that are packed with nutrition. If I have a choice between a piece of chocolate and a handful of nuts, the nuts should be an obvious choice.
  • No more snacking after supper. I find it too easy to keep eating once I start. Maybe someday I’ll get to the place I can handle one healthy snack after supper, but until I can, I really don’t need a snack after supper.
  • Make sure I drink enough water. Especially now that it’s getting warmer outside, I need to make sure I stay hydrated.

What about you? Are you being honest with yourself or making excuses?

6 thoughts on “The road to change: Excuses or Honesty?

  1. Violet Nesdoly

    All the best Ruth! I think the first few days of re-establishing good habits are the hardest. I’m doing the same thing by denying myself my 2:00 p.m. handful of chocolate chips with coffee. Ooh I love those. But they weren’t doing good things to the numbers. Now that I’ve denied myself that treat this whole last week, I don’t even think of it any more as I’m pressing my mug of French roast.

    1. Ruth L. Snyder

      Thanks, Violet. Thanks for sharing a practical example. It’s easy to think a small treat won’t make a difference, but it does. Small choices lead to big results – either positive or negative 🙂

  2. Kathleen

    Ruth, I’ve been battling my attraction to sugar and attempting to re-establish a regular fitness practice — 150 minutes per week. Doesn’t sound like much until it’s time to do it. I’m a master at excuses too. Too hot, too cold, too rainy, too windy, too tired, too busy. Often it’s because there are so many other more important things to be done. I must do. It feels wasteful to spend that time. Here’s what spurs me to move past my excuses: the less I make time for what I know are healthy practices, the less I’m motivated to do much else.

    1. Ruth L. Snyder

      Kathleen, thanks for sharing. Sugar and exercise are two battlegrounds for me too. I’m glad you’ve found a way to motivate yourself. Keep fighting those excuses. We can do this . . . with God’s help!

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