From Miserable to Amazing: The importance of Attitude
The above quote is from Charles R. Swindoll. He also says, “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”
In Chapter 8 of Balanced: Finding Center as a Work-at-Home Mom, Tricia Goyer has two lists. The first one is titled: How to Make Today Truly Miserable.
- “Open your eyes in the morning and think of all you didn’t get done yesterday.
- Assume your husband has a huge list of things for you to do when he asks, “So, do you have any plans today?” (as if you didn’t have a huge to-do list every day).
- Push aside your Bible reading and jump into sorting that stinky pile of laundry
- Remember what it used to feel like to wear your skinny, skinny jeans.
- Compare your kids to your neighbors’ star athletes and whiz kids.
- Compare your house/office/yard to the awesome pictures continually reposted on Pinterest.
- Walk the mall and point out all the things you wish you had money to buy.”
The second list by Tricia Goyer is titled: How to Make Today Truly Amazing
- “Thank God for everything your new day holds.
- Give your husband a hug and ask if he has something special in mind for the day. If he doesn’t, tell him you do and do something spontaneous.
- Take time to read your Bible and ask the Creator of the universe to guide your day.
- Appreciate your health and pray asking God to help you in all areas where you are weak. Or if you have a chronic illness thank Him for walking you through it.
- Relax in your favorite part of your house for ten minutes and thank God for what He’s provided.
- Go through your closet and pull out clothes you haven’t worn in a while—then take them to Goodwill.”
Today’s balanced challenge is to take one of Tricia’s tips to make today amazing, implement it, and blog about what difference it made in attitude.
As I write this post, my five-year-old daughter and I are just recovering from the stomach flu. This round of flu started a week ago when one of my twins threw up all over the bathroom floor. The flu is no fun, BUT I’m very thankful that our family is very healthy most of the time. I’m also thankful that I had a couple of days to relax away from my “normal” schedule—yesterday I was only awake for about five hours other than trips to the bathroom. Obviously my body needed the rest.
A couple of years ago I read 1,000 Gifts by Ann Voskamp. Since then I have made it my aim to focus on God and the many gifts He gives me each and every day. Life often does not give us what we want. (We tell our kids, “Get used to it—Life isn’t fair!”) However, as Charles Swindoll points out, attitude is 90% of the equation, and we have FULL control over our attitude.
So, every day, I can change my day from miserable to amazing. So can you. What choice(s) are you going to make today to change your day around? I’d love to hear about it in the comment section :).